Sunday, February 22, 2015

From Mom February 22, 2015

February 22, 2015

Dear Riley,

We knew winter couldn’t really be over.  But it came back yesterday and we even have the tiniest skiff of snow on the ground.  And the wind blew like crazy last night.  But the sun is out and we know that what’s left of winter can be weathered.

I loved your letter last week.  It’s good to know 1) that you survived your eating experiment and 2) that you are willing to testify as you were called to do.  Even in a foreign tongue, the Spirit carries your words to a willing heart.  What a miracle.  I post your blog on facebook where I also post the family pictures.  I had a couple comments on your last letter.  E said the locals will love you for your willingness to eat their food.  And a friend of Dad’s from high school, who also served a mission, commented “Just read and was inspired by those same verses in Alma 5 this morning. It is sweet to be reminded how others have felt what I feel and know what I know.” 

I do have to correct one thing: Josie is three.  A very precocious three who can pose herself with the rest of us behind her and only a camera on a tripod in front of her.  We’ll say things like don’t smile or look bossy.  She is the star and rest of us supporting cast.  But I wanted you to see her grow up a week at a time.

So let’s start with Josie this week.  She gave a talk in primary and she has been so excited for a couple weeks for her turn to do this.  Her topic was that through the atonement of Christ, all mankind may be saved.  So she took some jewels and explained that they are precious to her.  She told what she loved about them.  Then she told that she feels sad when she loses them.  She likened us to precious jewels to Heavenly Father.  She said that we were sent to earth to learn to make choices and that we sometimes make bad choices.  Since we do, we can’t be with Heavenly Father again.  So He sent Jesus Christ to earth as a baby to teach us.  Then Jesus suffered and died so we could repent and not be lost anymore.  She did such a good job, speaking up so clearly and confidently.  She just amazes me.

One cute thing that Dad and Josie say is when he goes to leave, he’ll say, “Hug and kiss.”  And then he’ll ask, “’Cause what happens if you don’t get a hug and a kiss?” and she answers, “You feel sad and I feel sad.”  It’s so cute.  I’m not sure how it started, but I like to hear it.

Aleah celebrated Chinese New Year all week.  She asked the family to go up to Lehi High School for their activities Monday night.  Since I had the flu, Dad took just Elise and Aleah.  Then Thursday Cascade was invited to UVU to put on a show.  It was actually really neat to hear the kids speaking and singing, acting out plays and reciting poetry, all in Chinese.  Then very kindly, UVU fed the families dinner.  It was a nice event.  Friday they performed for the school and hosted parents for activities.  I didn’t go because Dad couldn’t come stay with Josie and I didn’t want her to miss her nap.  Aleah was disappointed.  But they got dumplings at that celebration.  She just loves her Chinese program.

Elise turned 13 yesterday.  Isn’t she just the sweetest thing?  She actually wasn’t with us most of the day yesterday as the young women went on a retreat up to the W’s cabin.  It wasn’t automatic for Elise, she wanted to be home for her birthday.  But we planned out how we could accomplish everything with her going.  They sang her happy birthday and put candles in her French toast.  And they decorated her room in the night.  She probably got more special treatment than she would have if she’d stayed home.  Elise asked for cheese fondue for her dinner with Dad’s sourdough bread, broccoli, and asparagus.  She wanted chocolate cake with chocolate mousse filling, raspberries, and fluffy raspberry frosting.  It was a delicious meal.

Then Elise asked to watch a movie so we went to Redbox and she chose Night at the Museum.  Do remember how that movie made our museum trips?  Elise!  She would FREAK and have a panic attack at the Bean Museum, paralyzed, petrified.  I’m laughing that she chose THAT movie.  It was fun.

Elise is the one who requested a family fast laste week.  Doesn’t that just bring tears to your eyes?  What a sweet, sweet girl.

Parker is doing really well.  He sent a text Friday afternoon to see if he and Matt could watch a movie at our house Friday night and I said they could as long as he preserved my pride.  So he cleaned up, he even scrubbed the ring of grime under the toilet rim.  Cambry did not know that he had this planned and she got a movie at Redbox on the way home.  So to accommodate them both, we started her movie early, hoping to finish before M came over.  But we had 30 minutes left of it when he arrived.  We asked if they would be willing to watch the last 30 minutes with us, but they were ready to jet M's house, so of course we turned it over to them.  I made them kettle corn and Cambry had made gingersnaps.

Parker hiked the Y yesterday morning with Cambry as her other hiking buddies backed out on her.  He loved it.  Cambry said that she couldn’t have done the hike without Parker.  She said the first couple turns are really long and steep and she was discouraged and the optimist in Parker assured her along.  Now doesn’t that make you smile?  Parker is hometeaching at the care center with Grandma this afternoon as Grandpa still isn’t well enough (though he is improving and the doctors don’t think it’s anything serious).  It will take about 2 hours to see all 11 people. 

Cambry has decided picky is better than remorseful when it comes to suitors.

I had the flu this week.  It started coming on Sunday night and intensified Monday.  Though I was fasting, I decided my body needed hydration to fight the infection, so I still drank water.  I was in bed Tuesday and some of Wednesday, a little of Thursday and I sat still finishing my book Friday.  I read All the Light we Cannot See.  It is a historical fiction, which is probably my favorite genre.  The story is of a girl who goes blind in WWII times Paris and also about a German boy in an orphanage in a mining town.  Their stories are told separately until they collide at the climax of the story.  I enjoyed the book.  Probably my favorite passage was an interchange between the girl, Marie-Laure who is 14 and blind and in the charge of her great uncle and his faithful servant since her father has been imprisoned.  She is speaking to Madame Manec, the servant, about faith.  Madame perceives that she is asking really about her father and says, “You must never stop believing; that is the most important thing.”  Then we hear Marie’s thoughts and she wishes that life were like a Jules Verne novel (Around the World in 80 Days and 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea) and you could page ahead when you most needed.

We are not meant to see perfectly in this life.  And we are called to believe and sacrifice in this life for eternity.  But here’s the paradox: living in faith and sacrifice for eternity grant more rich and full living in THIS life.  Go figure.  God designs seem to work best.

Dad finished the last shelf in the garage last night just before the movie last night.  Tadah!  Now for moving in…  I’m so excited.  They are super sturdy.  In fact I went out to get something from the fridge and I didn’t see him out there, but a noise made me look around, perhaps for a scurrying rodent.  He was probably seven feet up on the second from the top shelf, screwing the shelf to the supports.

Well, son.  We love you.  We love knowing about your adventures.  We love sending you pictures.  When do you get the paper ones?  I mail them on Wednesdays and I think you’re getting them two weeks from that point?  I’m mailing them so you can look at them anytime, not only during computer time.  I’ll send some way to clasp the photo sheets when I send your birthday package.  It looks like it needs to be in the office by what I think is the transfer meeting April 15.  So I need to mail it in month or so.  So start sharing your wishlist so I can be collecting.

Take care and have another great week!

Love,
Mom


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