Monday, January 12, 2015

From Mom January 9, 2015

Friday, January 09, 2015

Hi Riley,

I have just a few minutes before this has to be mailed.  But I want you to check your box tomorrow at lunch.  The plan is cinnamon rolls by 10:30 to Post Mart.  They taste best fresh, you know.

Today I’m feeling driven by being back in school and PTA.  I feel so inadequate at managing everything.  But I am doing it.  And it is running fairly smoothly.

This week Tuesday afternoon, a friend called to see if I was home because she wanted to drop something off.  I had just finished my workout but told her she was welcome.  She dropped off what she called a tiny little love note.  Inside this little envelope was a chunk of change and a note of instruction.  I was granted a clothes shopping trip with instructions to go to the nice stores like Dillards and Banana Republic.
 
Dad was there when I opened it and I think he felt bad because we do have money to spend that way.  But I just don’t, not for myself, not so nice.  My soul was in conflict.  Could I accept this gift?  Should I?  But I was also so excited by the option to accept the gift.  I’ve lost enough weight and inches that my clothes, which were mostly bought just after I had Josie, no longer fit.  But I do not yet fit the clothes I was wearing before I started carrying her.  I’ve taken in the waist of my jeans to the point that the pockets pooch out because they are set at the original girth of the pant.  I just haven’t wanted to invest in interim clothes.

I actually prayed about this.  While I was trailing out my concerns, I just felt this direction to accept the gift and enjoy the opportunity.  In the morning, I started my day with the same prayer, wanting a confirmation that I should really go do this.  I had thoughts of other ways I could spend my time, but then I just knew that I could spend my time other ways, taking the day to use this gift was OK.
So I did.  M came with me on the spur, like 30 minutes after I spoke with her.  We went up to the outlets in Lehi and I was able to find nice-fitting clothes in my style and colors for way reduced prices.  I was able to buy a new wardrobe, accessories included.  I only didn’t find a pair of shoes and a pair of jeans, but I still have a little left to spend and Elise tells me I can spend some of my own money as well.

Now I realize that you may be concerned that we are struggling financially at all this, but that is not true.  I just try to be so careful so as to have savings and to have access to our funds to bless others.  You know me.

So when I got home and I was showcasing my new clothes, Elise asked if I would take her up to the outlets to spend her money.  I took her up that afternoon and she had so much fun.  We got her a dress coat from Banana Republic (her birthday gift) and she bought a dress there and a jacket.  She has very distinct taste, Cambry described it well as sleek.

So then Josie wanted her share in the apparel run and I took her to Savers yesterday and got her size 4 dresses mostly.  She wears each outfit an hour or so at a time and the house is littered with the moment’s cast offs.

We have just one Pday left.  So if there is anything that needs to taken care of on our end, let us know.  I’m excited for you.  Time really is flying.


I hope you liked the CTR ring I picked out;  it’s a style that they were waiting to put out, so it won’t be popular yet.  It seemed to fit all your criteria well. 

I love you,
Mom

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