Monday, December 22, 2014

Christmas message 2014

Christmas Sacrament Program Message 2014
Remarks by Bishop David Parish

There’s a beloved children’s book by Dr. Seuss, familiar to most, titled How the Grinch Stole Christmas.  Just last week I was thinking that one might well write a book titled How the World Stole Christmas. I couldn’t help but consider how drastically things have changed in my lifetime.  Gone are the days where you might see a school nativity pageant, conspicuously missing are the traditional Christmas songs I sang as a child in school.  As I sat and listened while my own 9 year old daughter participated in her school Christmas program in the very school I attended as a child, I noted that the songs were all about sleigh bells, snowflakes, snowmen, reindeer, Santa Claus, holly berries, hot chocolate, Hippopotamuses, and even teeth! Everything, it seemed, but what Christmas was really about.  

In many places in the U.S. a public display of even a Christmas tree is now met with protest and scorn.  Any public display of the nativity or even a private display on public property is viciously attacked and has even fostered lawsuits against communities.

Through the pressure of political correctness and the spiteful actions of a handful of vocal minorities, one major retail chain even experimented with using the phrase “Happy Holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas” in order to avoid offence, and tailored their ads, and employee training accordingly.

Retail stores seem in a mad rush to be the first to start capitalizing on Christmas.  On numerous occasions I’ve witnessed Christmas merchandise on store aisles even before Halloween.  The Thanksgiving turkey hasn’t even time to digest before crowds of people are fighting for a chance at door buster prices on the first “official” Christmas shopping day of the year, and unquestionably the busiest shopping day of the entire year.  Newspapers, television commercials, radio ads, and online media inundate us with a veritable tsunami of enticements urging people to buy things they don’t need, with money they may not have.

A few years ago I even heard a radio ad that asked if you weren’t tired of getting lame presents you didn’t want or need each Christmas…  It then invited you to get something for yourself this Christmas that you truly deserve and will truly appreciate.  Why not a Lexus??  I was stunned as I contemplated on not only the magnitude of the commercialism which had overrun Christmas, but how the focus, at least in this instance, had shifted from selfless giving to self gifting.

In almost all cases, there is a clear and steady departure away from Christ, and a substitution of the things money can buy…     

How the Grinch Stole Christmas
In Dr. Suess’ story of How the Grinch Stole Christmas, a pitiful creature called the Grinch hated Christmas and everything associated with it.  He despised the Whos in Whoville for their celebration of Christmas and devised a scheme to steal the holiday from them.  He sneaked into their houses the night before Christmas and took all the food, presents, lights, Christmas trees, stockings, and decorations.  As he pulled his enormous load to the top of a mountain to dump it, he reveled in the anticipation of what would happen down in Whoville when they awoke and discovered that no Christmas was coming.  He was certain they would start to cry, which was a sound he simply had to hear.

[So he paused. And the Grinch put his hand to his ear.
And he did hear a sound rising over the snow.
It started in low. Then it started to grow.
But the sound wasn't sad! Why, this sound sounded merry!
It couldn't be so! But it WAS merry! VERY!
He stared down at Whoville! The Grinch popped his eyes!
Then he shook! What he saw was a shocking surprise!
Every Who down in Whoville, the tall and the small,
Was singing! Without any presents at all!
He HADN'T stopped Christmas from coming! IT CAME!
Somehow or other, it came just the same!
And the Grinch, with his grinch-feet ice-cold in the snow,
Stood puzzling and puzzling: "How could it be so?"
"It came without ribbons! It came without tags!"
"It came without packages, boxes or bags!"
And he puzzled three hours, till his puzzler was sore.
Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn't before!
"Maybe Christmas," he thought, "doesn't come from a store."
"Maybe Christmas...perhaps...means a little bit more!"]

Perhaps if the Grinch had been familiar with the scriptures, he would have realized earlier that Christmas was never built on those things which cannot satisfy. 

Scripture 1
Wherefore, do not spend money for that which is of no worth, nor your labor for that which cannot satisfy. Hearken diligently unto me, and remember the words which I have spoken; and come unto the Holy One of Israel, and feast upon that which perisheth not, neither can be corrupted, and let your soul delight in fatness.  2 Nephi 9:51

Christmas is Especially for the Burdened
I recently sat with a member of our ward who had suffered significant loss.  As I inquired about Christmas, I received the following reply: “I just wish Christmas wouldn’t come this year…”

I’ve heard these sentiments before, and they are nearly always born of sorrow.  It’s true that for many, Christmas is a difficult time.  It can be a reminder of significant trials in life, financial burdens, overwhelming loss, shattered dreams, loneliness, grief, sorrow… but are these not the individuals for whom Christmas should hold the greatest comfort?

I also recently sat across the room from a good faithful member in significant financial difficulty who told me “We’re just going to focus on Christ this year...”  How I love this member!  Did not Christ understand grief and sorrow?  Does he not know how to lift our burdens and succor all who come unto him?

Scripture 2
He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief: and we hid as it were our faces from him; he was despised, and we esteemed him not.
Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted.
But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed.  Isaiah 53:3-5

Scripture 3
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. Matt 11:28-30

Scripture 4
Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. John 14:27

The Foundation of Christmas is Love
There is a story told of a 3 year old who was sharply reprimanded by her father for using an inordinate amount of expensive gold wrapping paper to wrap a present which she placed under the Christmas tree.  Money was tight, and the sloppily adorned package in its wasteful extravagance was an irritation which the father felt compelled to address.  On Christmas day, he was ashamed to discover that the present was for him and his heart softened.  Upon opening the gift, he found a box with nothing inside.  He chided the small girl for giving a gift with nothing in it.  Imagine his feelings as she responded; “It’s not empty Daddy, I blew kisses into it, and they’re all for you.”  The box, in reality, was not empty as it appeared.  It had been filled with love.

Strip away the presents, lights, evergreen trees, Santa Claus, Elves, Reindeer, stockings, food, sweets, decorations… all the adornments we associate with Christmas, and Christmas may appear empty.  However, if we look closer, we’ll discover that what remains is the love.

Scripture 5
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.  John 3:16

Love which enables us to repent and overcome all our weaknesses; Love which enables us to be raised from mortality to immortality with a perfect body of flesh and bone; Love which enables each one of us to one day return to our Heavenly Father and live with him in a state of never ending happiness; Love which compelled Christ to submit to the will of the Father and endure extreme pain and suffering as he took upon Himself the sins of all mankind.  Pain so extreme, we are told, that no mortal man could endure except it be unto death; Love which compelled Christ to lay down his life and die in a most cruel manner that we might not be bound by the chains of death; Love which placed such an enormous demand upon the laws of justice, that it could only be satisfied by an extreme act of mercy of equal magnitude towards all mankind…

It’s difficult to imagine more humble circumstances under which the Savior of the world could have come into the world.  A God, a king, surrounded by livestock and laying in a feed trough, it’s not likely that the air was filled only with the sweet smell of hay.  Historically we know that the Wise men bearing gifts of Gold, Frankincense, and myrrh were not present the night Christ was born.  Foreordained by God before the world was, foretold by prophets, heralded by angels, welcomed by lowly shepherds, he came…

"[He] came without ribbons! [He] came without tags!"
"[He] came without packages, boxes or bags!"
[Because] Christmas," [in fact], "[didn't] come from a store."
"Christmas...[indeed]...[is something much] more!"

This Christmas…

May the Light of Christ Direct.
May the Life of Christ Inspire.
May the Love Christ Permeate.

Is my sincere prayer in the sacred name of Jesus Christ.


Amen

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